Hello. I’ve been in a relationship for 4.5 years with my boyfriend. I have a better job and make more money than him. Right from the start, he has been borrowing money from me but he still has never paid me back. I feel like I pay for everything in relationship I am always doing…
Are you ready to dip your toes into the world of romance and possibly date for the first time? Love is in the air, and building fulfilling relationships can be both exciting and challenging. Whether you’re a teenager navigating the early stages of love or someone considering serious dating, responsible dating is key. Our “Am…
Crushing on someone is a roller coaster of emotions. One moment, you’re on cloud nine; the next, you are a bundle of nerves. You’re all set to ask them out, but then … you see them. And the words vanish. It happens to everyone. But guess what? We’ve cracked the code on how to ask…
Do you have a nagging feeling that you and your partner may be on the verge of a breakup? That your relationship seems to be moving like a rudderless ship, while both of you are just going with the flow, knowing you’re headed nowhere? But do you also often wonder what to do when your…
So you want to learn how to get matches on Tinder. Looking for the love of your life, but you end up getting ghosted? These numbers should help but they don’t: There are over 1.6 billion right swipes every day on Tinder. And a recent study showed that 95% of users meet their match within…
Is your love life like a tangled kite string, tugging you from hope to doubt? Do you wake up wondering, “When to leave a relationship?” or whisper through tear-stained lashes, “Is there hope for my relationship?” Fear not, tangled lovebird, for renowned relationship counselor Dhriti Bhavsar, armed with her Masters in Psychology and a heart…
What is considered flirting? Kell, a reader from New Jersey, shares, “I’ve been speaking to this guy regularly but I’m not sure where we stand. Are we flirting? Are we friends being playful? It’s so confusing.” Flirting can take on various forms and is a fascinating aspect of human interaction that is difficult to spot…
Let’s talk about the art of sliding into DMs. Now, I’ve never considered myself a smooth operator in the realm of online dating, but sometimes you stumble upon an opportunity you just can’t ignore. So, picture this: it’s a regular Tuesday evening, and I find myself deep in the Instagram rabbit hole. There she is…
Have you ever had that feeling when you’re texting a guy, and it’s like you’re playing detective with his emojis, trying to crack the code of what he’s really feeling? In today’s world, meeting new people is a breeze, thanks to all those swipes and clicks. But here’s the catch—it’s also become kind of tricky….
So, it was on a lazy Sunday afternoon that I stumbled upon an intriguing profile during my casual Instagram scroll. Now, I never know what to say when sliding into DMs, but instead of sticking to the usual likes, I decided to inject some humor using Instagram pickup lines. To my surprise, this unconventional approach…
You and your girlfriend, once inseparable, now find yourselves in a space that feels unfamiliar. The warmth and connection you once shared seem to have faded, leaving you questioning whether this is just a rough patch or a sign of something more permanent. It’s a situation many find themselves in—wondering if it’s time to make…
Seated across from Emma and Alex during our routine weekend brunch, a captivating dynamic unfolded between them that left me utterly fascinated. In that moment, a friend – as if she could hear my thoughts – said to me, “Emma and Alex aren’t just any couple. They embody the essence of a power couple, don’t…
Have you ever found yourself scrolling through messages, anxiously scanning for signs, or questioning your partner’s sudden change in behavior? You’re not alone. Welcome to the “Gut Feeling He’s Cheating No Proof Quiz,” which has been created by a seasoned relationship counselor who, with a master’s degree in psychology, understands the mental impact of suspicions…
“In my experience with my girlfriend, thoughtful words of affirmation for her go a long way more than anything else. Of course, it’s also about following up with actions but a good relationship is not just about buying extravagant gifts or planning grand surprises,” a friend said recently about her partner. She’s right. A heartfelt…
I have an interesting circle of six girlfriends. We have some commonalities, which could explain why we get along so well. The first is that we, strangely enough, are all single. The second is that we are in what some would call a more advanced age, a.k.a. 40 and above. And finally, we know how…
Marrying your best friend — yay or nay? Opinions are often split down the middle on this. As I stood at the altar, surrounded by the warmth of loved ones and the anticipation of a lifetime ahead, I couldn’t help but see myself as the biggest cheerleader of the concept. You see, my story isn’t…
You catch yourself stealing glances, smiling uncontrollably, and feeling a flutter in your stomach whenever that special someone is around. You’re wondering if this is what love feels like or if it’s just infatuation. Does this sound like you? This is where we come in. Welcome to the “How to Tell if You Love Someone…
Have you ever noticed someone who couldn’t take his eyes off you on the first date? Or someone who constantly smiled whenever they met you? Or someone who appears nervous or self-conscious when they see you? Well, there’s a sure-shot chance that the person in question might actually like you a lot. As humans, we…
You and your partner used to be inseparable, sharing laughter, dreams, and countless memories. However, lately, the once-solid foundation of your relationship seems to be crumbling. Perhaps you find yourselves entangled in heated arguments, struggling with a pervasive emotional disconnect, or facing challenges related to intimacy and trust. If this scenario strikes a chord with…
Who defines this ‘convention’, though? That’s what I always end up asking myself, and others. This is what my research tells me: ‘Conventionally attractive’ is a term for defining someone’s appearance that is a sum total of physical features. Being traditionally attractive is based on your ethnicity and background as well as the standards of…
Do you find it hard to voice your opinions because you’re afraid it might hurt someone’s feelings? Do you constantly question whether people truly like you? All these could be because of the particular style of attachment you have! Attachment styles describe the way we connect with others emotionally in a relationship. This can dictate…
One would not think that the latest phenomenon known as fexting or fighting over text can be attributed to the First Lady of the United States, Jill Biden — but it’s true. According to Jill, she and Joe prefer to argue over text so that the Secret Service agents around them are not privy to…
Feel like you and your partner are a perfect match but you’re not sure? It’s not always easy to tell. That’s why we’ve brought you the “Are We Meant to Be Together Quiz.” Created by a relationship counselor with a master’s degree in psychology, this quiz is more than just a set of questions; it’s…
Recently, a friend convinced me of the existence of twin flames, a deep connection that seems to transcend the rational. As I delved into this enigmatic world, my inner skeptic realized something unmistakable — that I could communicate with my twin flame. In this article, we will explore the signs your twin flame is communicating…
Picture this – you’re sitting alone, replaying memories of your past relationship like a movie. You’re left in a confused emotional state and you’re not quite sure if your ex still has feelings for you or if it’s time to move on. It’s a scenario most of us have faced, and it’s especially painful if…
Is that guy attracted to you? Or are you imagining it? This is one of the most common guessing games, and can even be a disaster for your love life if you guess it wrong. Which is why it is important to learn how to detect the more obvious and powerful signs of male attraction,…
What is reassurance in a relationship? That is the question that came to my mind when a friend told me about her relationship woes. According to her, her man always leaves her feeling insecure. He told her that her need for constant reassurance was draining him. Before long, he seemed to switch off from her…
I’ve often yelled at a friend fondly, “HOW are you unable to read the signs a woman is attracted to you? Look at her, she’s clearly throwing hints your way!” My friend’s dating life is filled with attempts at gauging interest from women. Watching him do that is a fascinating and irritating endeavor. But science…
Caught in the delightful dilemma of liking two guys? It happens to the best of us. One makes your heart do a happy dance, while maybe the other sparks a little something more… intriguing. Welcome to the ‘I Like Two Guys, How Do I Choose?’ Quiz, crafted by a seasoned relationship counselor who knows the…
In the quest for companionship and love, the allure of dating a millionaire remains unique. It’s not just about the allure of wealth but also the lifestyle, sophistication, and experiences that such a relationship can offer. In a world where financial success is often equated with success, dating someone who has achieved significant wealth can…
In the earlier days, the role of a husband was solely of a provider, while the wife’s role was solely of a nurturer. However, family structures underwent a phenomenal transformation changing millennials’ perceptions of families. In many modern households, there aren’t any defined roles for husbands and wives; they take up responsibilities according to requirements…
As I write this in 2023, it’s the Year of the Rabbit, at least in Chinese culture. If you thought Western astrology was complicated, then you haven’t yet heard of Chinese astrology. It is a beautiful classification system with a repeating cycle of 12 years according to the Chinese calendar. Every zodiac year or ‘ben…
Caring or controlling? It’s easy to mistake one for the other in relationships, but there’s a crucial difference – one makes you feel loved, and the other, scared. Enter the “Is My Boyfriend Controlling? Quiz,” a valuable tool for self-reflection designed to enhance your understanding of your boyfriend’s actions. Crafted by a psychologist with experience…
Choosing cute names for your girlfriend is not just a sweet gesture, but a meaningful way to express how much you love her. According to a study on cute pet names, “90% of Americans who use nicknames like “beautiful,” “gorgeous,” and “honey” for their partners were content in their relationship, compared to just 56% of…
Contemplating when to propose to your girlfriend? It can be an emotional rollercoaster, entirely natural to feel a bit jittery about such a significant move. That’s where our relationship expert comes in. Dhriti Bhavsar, a relationship counselor armed with a master’s degree in psychology, understands the weight of this decision. Crafting the “When Should I…
Entering the realm of cohabitation is a major move—no pun intended. It’s a decision that can send your thoughts into a whirlwind, and you might find yourself second-guessing everything. But hey, that’s completely normal! It’s not just about sharing space; it’s about merging lives, routines, and so much more. Dhriti Bhavsar, a seasoned relationship counselor…
Relationships, at the best of times, are challenging affairs to navigate, and past sexual trauma makes them even more difficult. A WHO report states that 1 in 3 women are subjected to physical or sexual violence globally. Even more worrying is that 1 in 4 girls/women aged 15 to 24 years have experienced some form…
There are few who have not been through a broken heart. Some people seem to breeze through a breakup without any of the attendant pain, but not everyone can cope on their own. Many of us need help. So, let us have a look at some of the best breakup apps that can help you…
Are narcissists capable of love? This is a question that weighs on the minds of a lot of people who have endured the narcissistic love patterns of idealization, devaluation, discarding, and hoovering. If you’re wrestling with it too, know that you’re not alone. We understand how emotionally draining and tumultuous a relationship with a narcissist…
As I sit down to write about monkey branching, a term that has made waves in the world of relationships and dating, I can’t help but recall personal experiences and those of friends who’ve navigated the complex terrain of love and commitment. It’s a concept that hits close to home for many, as we’ve witnessed…
If your idea of a perfect Saturday night involves snuggling up on the couch and immersing yourself in the latest true crime documentary, then The Kind and Considerate Man is your ideal match. On the flip side, if you’re inclined to paint the town red with your boo, dressed to the nines in a stunning…
Breaking up with someone can be a difficult and emotionally charged experience, but what about the often-overlooked emotional rollercoaster experienced by the one who initiates the breakup? Dumpers remorse, a term gaining recognition in the realm of relationship psychology, delves into the complex emotions and regret felt by those who decide to end a romantic…
Have you ever wanted to break up with your boyfriend or girlfriend and felt guilty about it? Do you wish to end your relationship with your SO but make sure you can still be on talking terms later? Do you respect your beau but feel you should end things as partners? This is a tricky…
Quite honestly, I thought the whole idea of daily affirmations was pure hogwash. That was until I met my current partner. I never thought of using words of affirmation for him but this amazing, well-educated man believes in the power of affirming words. So much so that he has different affirmations for every day of…
Are you eagerly eyeing your friends’ sparkly new diamond rings and wondering when your turn will come to join the wives club? Look no further – the “When Will He Propose Quiz” is here to demystify the situation and offer you a sneak peek into your relationship’s future. No need to be on the constant…
R-E-S-P-E-C-T. The great singer Aretha Franklin sang about it. Tomes have been written about it. Respect as a concept is essential to any successful relationship, platonic or otherwise. But what does showing respect mean? Some consider it to imply admiration. Others refer to it as a basic human right. Respect in a relationship – of…
A friend recently asked me if I thought her toxic ex had male narcissist traits. I told her that being narcissistic is different from being diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), and there’s no way to know unless he gets a diagnosis through mental health professionals or a licensed therapist. But she was insistent. She…
Do you ever find yourself questioning your own sanity because of your partner? Does it feel like somehow you’re always wrong and they never make mistakes? Well, this might be a sign you’re a victim of gaslighting. That’s why we encourage you to take the short 8-question “Am I Being Gaslighted Quiz,” crafted by Dhriti…
Relationships are tricky, and figuring out if it’s time to part ways with your boyfriend can be even trickier. That’s why we’re introducing the “Should I Break Up with My Boyfriend Quiz,” created by Dhriti Bhavsar, a psychologist with a master’s degree and a focus on counselling. Dhriti’s knowledge will help you decide whether it’s…
I was recently chosen to give a toast at my best friend’s wedding. Since she’s all for fun and games, her instructions were clear: “No crying; only funny wedding toasts at my wedding!” I did my research. And here I am, putting it to good use. Did you know that the tradition of wedding toasts…
Are you one of those who go straight to stalking their potential match on social media as soon as they win the swiping game on a dating app? Let’s accept it, waiting to break the ice on the first date doesn’t work for most of us in this fast-paced era of online dating. And this…
Being cheated on by a romantic partner is one of the most devastating experiences anyone can go through. The subsequent feelings of hurt, humiliation, sorrow, anger, and disbelief can be overwhelming. To work through these emotions, it can help to write them down in a letter or a text. You can either send a painful…
Just as no two snowflakes are the same, no two women are identical! So, how do you know who the ideal girl for you is? Fortunately, Dhriti Bhavsar, a psychologist armed with a master’s degree in psychology, has created this simple 10 question quiz to help you figure it out! Are you drawn to the…
Have you ever found yourself bending over backward to please others, only to feel like you’re constantly stuck in the friend zone? Do you ever wonder why being the ‘nice guy’ doesn’t always lead to the happy, fulfilling relationships you’ve been dreaming of? I know how it feels. You’re not alone in this often bewildering…
Finding dates or romantic connections has always been a bit challenging for transgender people. Luckily, the advances in technology simplified the way we find love nowadays, and the advent of trans dating sites has had a great impact on the transgender community. There are plenty of such websites and apps that can answer your question…
Love is never easy. Even more difficult are break ups. They bring in their wake a whirlwind of emotions. When you finally decide to call it off, it leaves you desperate to turn back the clock and rekindle what you once had. Your heart yearns for it even though your mind clearly says no. When…
Have you observed a sudden shift in your partner’s behavior? Perhaps you’ve noticed them becoming more guarded with their phone, taking extra precautions to keep it locked. If a lingering sense of unease has led you to ponder, “Is my partner cheating on me?” – rest assured, you’re not alone. Welcome to a solution-oriented space…
“Why does my girlfriend hit me?” — Men hesitate to confess this personal crisis. A study says, “Domestic violence against men covers a broad range of violent acts such as physical abuse, emotional abuse, sexual abuse, or financial abuse.” It’s quite underreported due to the myths surrounding male survivors. According to the CDC, 1 in…
Now more than ever, you want to be sure that you and your partner consent to literally every single thing that you do in your relationship. To some people, consent may seem like an afterthought or easy to take for granted. This is especially true for those who have been in long, time-tested relationships. They…
Trust and respect are fundamental pillars in any healthy relationship. Without these, you cannot hope to build a wholesome, lasting connection with another person. Irrespective of how long you’ve been together, making a conscious effort to nurture these two elements is vital to the sustenance of a relationship. Without them, an unhealthy or even toxic…
While talking about narcissism in his bestselling book The Art of Loving, psychoanalyst Erich Fromm said, “The main condition for the achievement of love is the overcoming of one’s narcissism.” And he was right. Narcissism can, in many cases prevent a healthy relationship from blossoming, because nothing or nobody is more important to narcissists than…
Looking to level up your dating game and avoid the abyss of ghosting? Dive into this list of 100 best Hinge conversation starters to get you to the talking stage! Whether you’re wondering how to start a conversation on Hinge, seeking the right questions to ask on Hinge, or just plain curious about what to…
Interested in someone special but feeling hesitant about taking the first step? We don’t blame you for being worried about the possibility of rejection. That is where we come in! Dhriti Bhavsar, a psychologist with a masters degree and specialisation in counselling has used her knowledge to help you unravel the mysteries of human connection….
“Am I overthinking or is he losing interest?” “Is he being distant or am I overthinking the situation?” If these questions are weighing on your mind, chances are you’re still not confident that the guy you’re with is into you or not. One of the incredible challenges of navigating the complex dance of human relationships…
